I have had too many bad experiences trying to go on dates with people without finding out ahead of time their stance on cannabis use.
There have been countless times where I developed great physical chemistry with someone instantly, only to find out at the end of the first or second date that she is completely against people who use marijuana daily.
I don’t love going on dates with people who are judgemental about a medical marijuana user’s desire to use cannabis for medical purposes, but during my first date in undergraduate school, I remember being asked by the girl if I was a “pot smoker” and this was back when I only used it on the weekends. But for some reason, this still bothered her and she made it clear to me that she did not agree with my cannabis use. Nowadays I make sure that cannabis is a mutual interest before I beginning seriously pursuing something passionateally. For instance, recently I took a date to Nichols Arboretum with a disposable vape pen for us to share while walking around the facility outside. Since it’s June and still the early summer, we have some of the best MI weather of the entire year. The only thing I could possibly complain about are all of the mosquitos and black flies. Although those pests are a fixture of nearly all summer time weather, regardless of where a single lives. Both of us ended up really enjoying the weed vape pen, and my date expressed interest in going on another date with me afterward. Now I have to find a place in Ann Arbor to top the Arboretum.